I'm a single male in my late 20's. I have had more relationships than I could count with my 10 fingers, and I have more break up's than a truck full of eggs on a bumpy road. I just told you I have all these break up's: well, not exactly. To be precise, we more of like parted ways, like roommates who's lease is up. You see, I'm not the type of person who would go for long-term commitments like couple relationships or marriages. I'm all for free relationships. In case you don't know what that means, it's that kind of relationship that has absolute freedom but with no responsibilities. I can come and go as I please, can hook up with a mature, consenting adult anytime anywhere, and as fast as I can get into a promising relationship, I can move out of it when it turns sour. Nobody can hold me back because I never promised to stay. In other words, in an open relationship I'm in a meaningful and satisfying relationship with people I love without ever hurting them.

I don't believe in marriage. They'd marry this year and they'll swear they'll love each other "in sickness and in health, for richer, for poorer, till death do us part", but the next year they are divorced, with shattered lives, broken dreams and torn children. People give love a bad name.

Passionate lovers are in the heat of the moment would promise the stars, the moon and the earth, but in the bored moments, they'll curse and spit. In their weak moments, they cheat and lie. Why do we always hurt the ones we love? Honesty issuch a lonely word. Everyone is so untrue.

Thus I exhort all you who are sick and tired of being hurt never to give your heart to anyone. Give it to everyone but to no one. Love as many as you can, but never give your heart away. You have to get out into the world and experience all the things that life can give. Don't be imprisoned in a single commitment." Before you meet the prince, you must kiss a lot of frogs. “Collect and collect, then you can select."

What does it mean?
1. I have more break up's than a truck full of eggs on a bumpy road.
2. …we more of like parted ways, like roommates who's lease is up.
3. …not the type of person who would go for long-term commitments.
4. …kind of relationship that has absolute freedom but with no responsibilities.
5. I can move out of it when it turns sour.
6. People give love a bad name.
7. Honesty is such a lonely word.
8. Give it to everyone but to no one.
9. Before you meet the prince, you must kiss a lot of frogs.

What do you think?
1. What do you think of flings and one night stand?
2. Who do you think are more responsible for short-lasting relationships? Men or women? Why?

3. Do you think there is no such thing as “perfect relationship”? How about “right relationship”?
4. Do you think everyone has a soul mate? Can your soul mate be your lasting partner?
5. Why do men are not contented with only one woman? Are men really born womanizer?
6. Is marriage important to a relationship? Do you believe that a relationship vowed in front of God must be kept sacred?

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BY: Jack Protacio

None of us came here of our own will, but were put here by our parents. Since were all born the same way, and are thus equal, we should all do our best in life, but only a few of us actually achieve success. Some of us are satisfied with our current status and think we should be grateful for what we have. Some of us, who are never happy with our condition, see this world as a boundless sea of endless troubles. Is there some preordained destiny that controls our lives, or is it all just chances? Only one thing is certain: it is useless to complain about fate. We can try to make our own fortune, or we can passively allow it to happen whatever develops.

What does it mean?

Life allows us to ask for what we want, but usually gives us what we deserve.

“Try and try until you succeed.”

At the end of the rainbow there’s a pot of gold.

What do you think?

Why do you think most of the people are not satisfied with everything they have?

How important is planning and organizing in one’s person life?

How do you see your self 10 years from now?

What is the most important thing in a man’s life?

Do you agree with the opinion expect the unexpected? Why? Site an example.

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The high court recently upheld an adultery law that that makes it a crime to have an extramarital affair in South Korea. Among those facing prison on adultery charges is a movie star Ok So-ri. The adultery law is popular with the public and even some of Ok's natural supporters such as young educated women say her behaviour is unacceptable.

Adultery is a global phenomenon and age old social problem which is the root of so many problems. History records many accounts where kingdoms fell, leaders stumbled, careers ended, and children suffered as adultery was committed.

FACTS
Spouses face up to two years in prison if convicted, though few end up behind bars.
South Korea remains deeply conservative and is influenced by a Confucian heritage.
Supporters of the adultery ban say it promotes monogamy and keeps families together.
Opponents say the government has no right to interfere in people's private lives.

PEOPLE WHO COMMITTED ADULTERY
Bill Clinton - President of America
Prince Charles – Prince of England
Boris Becker – Tennis player
Henry VIII – King of England
Mick Jagger - Musician
David Beckham – Soccer player
Kobe Bryant – American basketball player
DISCUSSION:
Do you think marriage should be forever?
Why do you think people cheat?
Do you think adultery is a crime?
Why do people fall out of love?
What is your image of marriage in Korea?
How easy do you think it should be to get a divorce?
What do you think of religions that do not allow divorce?
What are the divorce laws like in your country?
Is divorce something society can stop?
Would you feel shame if you got divorced?
What do you think it is like to be trapped in an unhappy marriage?
Is divorce a real taboo in your culture?
What are the consequences of high divorce rates for society?
What would you do if you worked for an organization trying to stop people from getting divorced?
What was the most interesting thing you heard?
Was there a question you didn’t like?
Was there something you totally disagreed with?
What did you like talking about?
Which was the most difficult question?

ENGLISH SAYINGS, IDIOMS & QUOTES

Thou shall not commit adultery.
- Seventh Commandment

If a married person commits adultery, the punishment is to stone them to death, according to Allah's law.

- Surah An-Nur 24:2

I do not think that there are any men who are faithful to their wives.

- Jacqueline Kennedy Onassis

Husbands are chiefly good lovers when they are betraying their wives.

- Marilyn Monroe

My attitude toward men who mess around is simple: If you find them, kill them.

- Loretta Lynn

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The Internet has become an integral aspect of most people's lives, regardless of whether it's used for communication, information, or entertainment. Billions of people around the world send e-mail, chat online, read the news, and maybe even gamble, trade stocks, or play competitive games on a daily basis. Some have progressed into a dangerous realm, as the Internet can provide a sense of instant gratification or induce a withdrawal from the real world exactly like an addiction.

A number of psychologists argue that people who become addicted to the Internet already suffer from some form of disorder. For example, someone hooked on Internet gambling would still play in the real world, or someone with image or confidence issues would seek escape through another medium. Other professionals see the addiction as real, though, one which the medical world should recognize and insurance companies should cover treatment for.

While doctors and other experts debate the issue, South Korea has acted on the problem it views as egregious. In addition to counseling centers and treatment programs at hospitals, a rehab center for teens has recently been established. The country held the world's first international symposium on compulsive Internet disorder, too. Ninety percent of South Korean homes have Internet access, and online gaming is a well-recognized national sport. Children ditch school for marathon gaming sessions. Some gamers have even dropped dead after days and days online, deprived of sleep.

The rehab center offers teens the opportunity to connect with the real world, and rediscover satisfaction from it. During the twelve days, participants are barred from computers and may only use a cell phone one hour per day. The remaining time gets filled with physical exercise and group activities geared towards establishing real-life emotional bonds.

The center must turn away roughly four applicants for each available opening.

How serious are these addictions? Rank them in order.
1. the Internet
2. gambling
3. texting messages on a cell phone
4. alcohol
5. cigarettes

Talk about the following questions.

1. How many hours per day do you use the Internet? Do you think this is too much? Why?
2. Is Internet addiction a real illness that doctors and insurance companies should recognize? Why/not?
3. Could you go without a computer or the Internet for one week? one month? one year? Why/not?
4. At which point does the Internet become an addiction rather than a useful tool? Please explain.
5. What would you do if a family member spent days and days playing games on the computer?

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Racism is one of the world’s major issues today. Many people are not aware of how much racism still exists in our schools, workforces, and anywhere else where social lives are occurring. It is obvious that racism is bad as it was many decades ago, but it sure has not gone away. Racism very much exists and it is about time that people need to start thinking about the solutions to this matter.

Many people today live their lives obvious to what is happening in the world around them, often trying to convince themselves that racism is not a problem in their world. Others know all about the problem, but don’t really realize that they themselves could possibly be adding to the problem by discriminating against someone else’s human rights, and at the same time going around saying how open minded they are.

Many people also believe that it depends on if a person was brought into the world as a racist or not, but that is not the case at all. In fact, an individual cannot be born a racist but only learn to become one as they grow from childhood to adulthood.

Racism still exists within all cultures. Some people won’t admit they’re a racist, but their actions and words prove otherwise. Most people won’t directly discriminate other races, but that doesn’t mean it doesn’t happen every day.

Conversation Questions
1. Do you think all races are equal?
2. Are you prejudiced against other races?
3. Would you let one of your children marry with a non- Korean?
4. How do you think foreign residents are treated in Korea?
5. What do Korean parents teach their children about non- Koreans?
6. Have you ever discriminated against someone because of their race?
7. What can Koreans do to reduce discrimination in Korea?
8. Do you think some races are Superior?

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The difference between man and woman all over the world came from the fact that man considers himself the provider. Historically, women's roles were confined to the home. From a young age, women were taught to prepare for their future roles as wife and mother. Women in general could not participate in society as men did, and their role was limited to household matters. Traditionally, the purpose of marriage was to produce a male heir to carry on the family line. However this is changing and woman now play an important part in business, politics and family life.

Famous woman
Margaret Hilda Thatcher: Is the first and only woman to be Prime Minister of the United Kingdom
Oprah Winfrey: Is an American television host, media mogul, and philanthropist.

GENDER DISCUSSION

Do you see yourself as a typical man/woman? Why or why not?
In your country are the responsibilities of a mother the same as the responsibilities of a father to their families?
What are the responsibilities of a father to his family?
What are the responsibilities of a mother to her family?
Are fathers capable of carrying out the duties of a mother and vice versa?
Are there different expectations for sons and daughters?
What habits are deemed as appropriate for men but inappropriate for women?
What behaviors are deemed as appropriate for men but inappropriate for women?
What jobs are deemed as appropriate for men but inappropriate for women?
Are men and women equal in ability and intelligence?
What things can either men or women do that the other cannot do and why?
Is it OK for men to cry?
Is it OK for men to appear sad?
Is it OK for women to appear angry?
Is it OK for men to appear weak?
In your home, who does the cooking, cleaning and household chores?
Is it possible for women to join the army in your country?
What jobs do men do and women not do in your country?
Who is regarded as the head of the family?
Should boys and girls be brought up differently?
Should boys and girls be treated differently on the part of the parents?
What would happen if your parents changed their place for one day?
How would the world look like without men?
How would the world look like without women?
When a woman and a man are together, who does most of the talking? What makes you think so?
Can a man and a woman be only friends?
Do men/men friendships differ from women/men or women/women friendships? How?
Who do you think has life easier, girls or guys? Why?

SYNONYM MATCH: Match the following synonyms:

(a)mass..............................................agenda
(b)advances.......................................light
(c)struggle.........................................promise
(d)blueprint.......................................breakthroughs
(e)poverty..........................................salaries
(f)potential........................................walk
(g)beacon..........................................fight
(h)disfigure.......................................giant
(i)march............................................mutilate
(j)wages............................................destitution

GENDER IDIOM:

Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned: something that you say which means a woman will make someone suffer if they treat her badly. “Don't be so sure she'll forgive you. Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.”

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Time is one of our greatest resources. Used wisely it can enable you to do the things in life that are important to you. Decisions about how you spend your time will determine many things in your lifestyle including: stress levels and the pace of your day, whether you have time for exercise and wellness, how much time you can devote to family, how much you are able to accomplish in your work.

“Time is the coin of your life. It is the only coin you have, and only you can determine how it will be spent. Be careful lest you let other people spend it for you.”
~ Carl Sandburg

Time management is one of the greatest skills you can develop. Being able to manage your time effectively can mean being successful in your career or reaching important life goals like running a marathon or writing a book. In the big picture, time management may determine whether you look back on your life one day and reflect on the wonderful things you in your life you have done, or whether those dreams you had were just that, dreams.

DISCUSSION
How do you manage your time?
Do you always have a hectic schedule?
Do you like to be busy, or do you like to have an easy schedule?
How do you give yourself a quality time even if you have a hectic schedule?
What are your schedules for the day?
Do you schedule out what you have to do every week? What do you do if you forget an appointment?
What time do you usually go home?
Is there a difference between your work and when you were still studying? When it comes to time management?
Do you still have time for yourself? To your family?

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Employees need vacations to stay productive and recuperate from stresses and pressures at the office. Some countries fully agree with this philosophy. Take France as an example, which has a work week that is only thirty-five hours to improve the quality of life there. And the Germans almost believe that their one month vacations are a sacred right.

Other countries have opposite practices, though. Japanese employees use only a small fraction of their yearly vacation time because they want to be seen as full contributors to the team. In the US, work habits continue to change. Fewer employees take all their entitled vacation days, which equals about nine days per year. The worsening economy is partly to blame for the change. Many employees fear layoffs as companies post weaker profits, and so they want to be viewed as hard workers.

But a growing number of people support mini-retirements. Rather than take short vacations every year, or no vacation whatsoever, the mini-retirement can be viewed as an extended vacation. Mini-retirements advocate an active youth instead of working until old age and then taking a "macro" retirement. Several months away from work allows employees to pursue personal goals and dreams. And if the person travels abroad, then he can immerse himself in the foreign country and culture. With remote technology, Internet cafes, and free Wi-Fi services, it's even possible to stay up to date of developments at the office, too.
Life should be more than work, money, and savings. Hopefully more offices around the world will not only encourage vacation, but take up the mini-retirement concept, too.

Do you agree or disagree? Why?

1. I work too much!
2. I look forward to my retirement. (Or I'm already retired and I really enjoy it.)
3. Employees shouldn't take long vacations because there could be problems at the office.
4. I would be much happier and enjoy life much more if I could take at least one long vacation every year.
5. Vacations don't have much benefit.

Talk about the following questions.

1. Have you ever canceled, postponed, or limited your vacation because of work? Please explain.
2. What do you think about the idea of mini-retirements versus regular vacations? Please explain.
3. What are the pluses and minuses of mini-retirements from an employer's point of view? Please explain.
4. What are the pluses and minuses of mini-retirements from an employee's point of view? Please explain.
5. What will the balance between work, vacations, and retirement be in the future? Please explain.

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All it takes is one bad apple to spoil the bunch. Like many maxims, it can be applied to many facets of every day life. A recent research report indicates that "one bad apple" can quickly ruin the atmosphere of the office. A negative employee brings conflict and stress to the workplace. A problem employee usually doesn't do an equal amount of work, is always unhappy and complaining, and bullies or intimidates others.

Negative behavior, the researchers found, far outweighs any positive behavior, so that several positive employees aren't able to offset one negative teammate. In fact, it often leads to a downward spiral, with more and more employees becoming unhappier and unhappier as time progresses. The news comes out of the University of Washington.

In order to take care of the problem, companies need to deal with the negative influence immediately. One solution is to have the employee work alone as much as possible. In effect, he should be cordoned off from other team members work-wise. Better yet, ensure that effective hiring practices prevent the problem from entering the building. Training managers to better screen potential hires helps, as do personality tests. These can easily weed out emotionally unstable or disagreeable people.

Case in point: The wife of the report's lead author observed that when a problem employee at her office was sick for several days, the atmosphere quickly changed. People began to help one another. They played classical music on their radios. Many went out for drinks after work to form closer bonds. However, once the problem returned, the toxic atmosphere returned, too.

Talk about the following questions.
1. Do you agree, that "one bad apple spoils the bunch?" Why/not?
2. Have you ever had a similar experience as the example? What happened when the negative person was away?
3. If your office were "toxic," would you consider quitting? Why/not?
4. What other solutions do you think might work with a bad apple? Why?
5. Do you think that a bad apple usually knows he creates a negative atmosphere? Why/not?

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A party is a gathering of persons who have been invited by a host for the purposes of socializing, conversation, and recreation. A party will typically feature eating and drinking, and often music and dancing as well.

Some parties are held in honor of a specific person, day, or event (e.g., a birthday party, a Super Bowl party, St. Patrick’s Day). Parties of this kind are often called celebrations.

A party is not necessarily a private occasion. Public parties are sometimes held in pubs and bars, and people attending such parties may be charged an admission fee by the host.

PARTY DISCUSSION
1. Do you like going to parties? Why or why not?
2. What kind of parties have you attended before?
3. Have you attended parties abroad? Compare and contrast that party you have attended abroad to a party that you usually have in Korea?

4. Remember a party that you like best? How long did the party last? What made it best?
5. Have you attended a lousy party? What made you it lousy?
6. Have you ever hosted a party? Please tell me details about it. If not, do you like to host a party in the future?
7. Are you sociable or do you just keep yourself to yourself when you attend a party?
8. Have you met friends from parties you’ve been to? If so, do you keep in touch with somebody or you keep somebody at arm’s length?
9. Do you eat a lot during parties? What were the foods being served at the parties you have attended before?
10. Do you drink a lot at parties? Or do you prefer to stay sober?
11. What kinds of party drinks have you tried? Which one is the best for you?
12. What other activities do you do at the parties? Do you perform? Do you sing or dance?

WORDS AND EXPRESSIONS
1. lousy – (a) informal word; it means “very poor or very bad”
Ex: I had a lousy weekend.
(b) it means “very ill”
Ex: I feel lousy. I’m going home.

2. keep yourself to yourself – phrasal verb; to not talk to other people very much
Ex: He's a very private person - he keeps himself to himself.

3. keep in touch with – to have continuous communication with someone
Ex: I keep in touch with my relatives who settle in Korea.

4. keep somebody at arm’s length - to not allow someone to become too friendly with you.
Ex: I always had the feeling she was keeping me at arm's length.

5. sober – being serious and thoughtful; clear-headed.
Ex: We are now far more sober and realistic.

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The topic of health is one of extreme importance and one that everyone should be aware of. We all hear about beauty and about how we should be fit and in shape to look good, but there is much more to it than that. Health diet nutrition is important more so for the inside, so that you are healthy and feel good about yourself.

To most, Good health is usually associated with a long healthy life. Healthy people are likely to live longer. Good health is a basic component of human well-being and a necessity for earning a livelihood.

Health Conversation Questions

• Do you regularly think about your health? Why/not? How about worry about it?


• How healthy are you? Please explain.


• Have you ever been very sick or in the hospital?



• How often do you go to the doctor to check your health? Should you go more often?
  
• Do you exercise?


• Is dieting healthy?How often do you go on a diet? Why/not?


• What are your opinions about vegetarians and vegans? Are they healthy? Would you ever consider trying that lifestyle?


• What do you think about diets that promise dynamic results in only a short amount of time? Have you ever tried such a diet? If yes, what were the results?


• In today's fast-paced society, how easy is it to eat healthily? Why do you think so?


• Do you think that the food we eat affects our physical and mental health? Why/not?
  
• If there was a pill that allowed you eat anything without putting on the pounds, would you take it? How would you answer if there were side-effects, too?


• Do you agree or disagree? You are what you eat. Why/not?


• Do you agree or disagree? The happiest people are healthy people?
  
• In countries with national health insurance, do you think obese people should pay higher taxes for health coverage? How about people who smoke? Why/not?


• Who is primarily responsible for our health, the government or ourselves? Why?


• What impact does the environment play on our health as individuals?

Slang Expressions

back on your feet
To recover, usually from an illness, to feel better after being sick.
Ex: Glad to see you back on your feet, you were very sick last week.
in someone’s hair
Constantly annoying, bothering someone again and again.
Ex:My boss is always getting in my hair.

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Scientists in the USA have found a strong link between headaches and warmer weather. For many years people have believed that sudden increases in temperatures cause headaches. Doctors at a medical centre in Boston now say they know it’s true. Researchers did a study on 7,054 patients who went to hospital because of a headache. Their research showed that the main cause of the patients’ headaches was a change in the weather. A rise in temperature in the previous 24 hours was the biggest trigger. The research team said the chances of getting a bad headache increased by 7.5 percent with every five-degree Celsius rise in the temperature. The second biggest cause was a fall in air pressure, which happens especially after thunderstorms.

Lead researcher Dr. Kenneth J. Mukamal of Harvard Medical School gave a simple explanation of his research. He said: “In the summer, you may think that ice cream sets off your migraine. But it wasn’t the ice cream, it was the temperature increase on that very hot day that led you to eat the ice cream.” Dr. Mukamal added: “Our results are consistent with the idea that severe headaches can be triggered by external factors. These findings tell us that the environment around us does affect our health.” One doctor said to avoid headaches, we should stay away from things like coffee and wine when the weather suddenly gets hotter. Bad headaches and migraines affect millions. Around 18 percent of women and six percent of men suffer from them.

DISCUSSION
a) What do you think of Dr. Mukamal’s simple explanation?
b) What springs to mind when you hear the word ‘headache’?
c) Do you think changes in the weather can give you a headache?
d) What usually gives you a headache?
e) What do you think is the best way of avoiding headaches?
f) How does the weather change your feeling?
g) Can you remember the biggest headache you ever had?
h) Do you think people living in hot countries get more headaches than those in cold countries?
i) Do you think the weather has affected your health, positively or negatively?
j) What country has the best weather? Do you think people are healthier there?
b) Do you think people get more headaches today than 100 years ago?
c) Why do women get more headaches than men?
e) Does the type of job you do affect the chances of getting a headache?
f) Does studying English give you a headache?

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Moving out

After decades of continuous growth, the population Seoul is now on a continual decline. With a population of only 1.5 million people in 1955, by 1989 the population had grown to more than 10 million. That number represented approximately one-fourth of the total population of Korea.

However, beginning in the early 1990’s Seoul residents, frustrated with the hassles of living in the overcrowded capital, began to move out. Where is everybody going? Most of them are moving to the suburbs where the air is slightly cleaner, there is less traffic, and where housing is more affordable. Many people who live in Seoul complain about the decline in the quality of life there. Air quality is worse than ever, apartment prices are unreal, and the steady increase in the number of cars on the roads now has traffic at a crawl much of the time.

Reasons for the move are as follows:

“Seoul is too expensive.” The cost of everything from apartment rental fees to the price of a cup of coffee are higher in Seoul than in the suburbs. An old 25-pyeong apartment in Seoul can cost more to buy or rent than a brand new 43-pyeong apartment in the suburbs. Seoul has been designated as one of the most expensive cities in the world to live in.

“Shopping facilities are better.” Another reason for the popularity of the satellites towns are the better shopping facilities there. Space is not at a premium as it is in the cities, so sprawling discount stores have been built. The stores in the city are usually much more congested and cover less land area, so most people find shopping in the suburbs stores more convenient.

The only reason given for wanting to remain in Seoul are the better educational opportunities there. Most Koreans feel Seoul’s school are the finest the country has to offer.

Questions:
1. Which of these statements best describes the way you feel about Seoul? Tell why you think so.
o Seoul is a wonderful city and a good place to live and work.
o Seoul is too big and crowded, and too noisy.

2. Most Koreans who move to Seoul from other parts of the country say it is hard to make new friends in Seoul. Is Seoul an unfriendly place to out-of-towners? If so, why?

3. Where would you rather live—in Seoul or in one of the “new cities” around Seoul, such as Bundang or Ilsan? Why?

4. Do you agree or disagree with the following statements? Tell why you think so?
a. All the best jobs in Korea are in seoul.
b. The schools in Seoul are better than anywhere else in the country.
c. The quality of life in Seoul is worse than anywhere else in the country.

5. The idea of moving the capital (government) out of Seoul has often been discussed. If the government were moved out of Seoul, where would be the best place to move it? Give the advantages and disadvantages of each of the following locations.
o Deajon
o Busan
o Daegu
o Gyeongju
o Incheon

6. The only reason some people want to live in Seoul is to send their children to Seoul schools. Are schools in Seoul really much better than in other places?

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What makes teens and twenty-somethings happy these days? You might be tempted to cite sex, money, and music as primary sources of happiness. You would be wrong. Among 13-24 year olds, according to a survey asked of 1280 people, spending time with family came in at top. Time with friends followed in the number two position, and time with a significant other was third. Almost no one said money as a source of happiness.

Seventy three percent indicated that a good relationship with their parents made them happy. In addition, when looking towards a role model, nearly half of the respondents mentioned one of their parents. Moms ranked higher than dads, though, with 29% of the vote. Dads garnered 21%.

Other results tend towards the disconcerting. Most of the pollees generally felt happy with the direction of their lives, but the survey discovered a racial divide. Whites tended to be happier across all economic categories than blacks or Hispanics. And as for stress, kids noted a 10% higher rate than adults. For 13-17 year olds, school stressed them out. For those in the 18-24 range, jobs and financial matters caused worry. The middle class and women had slightly elevated stress levels.

The big question came down to the future, and whether today's youth will remain happy. Sixty-two percent of teens believed the future will hold greater amounts of happiness. Pollees in the 18-24 year old range were even more optimistic than their younger counterparts. However, many in both age groups anticipate a more difficult life than their parents' is in store.

VOCABULARY

cite - to refer to ; especially : to mention formally in commendation or praise: to name in a citation
primary - something that stands first in rank, importance, or value
respondents - one who responds: one who answers in various legal proceedings
garnered - to acquire by effort: earn
disconcerting - to throw into confusion
racial - of, relating to, or based on a race
elevated - to raise in rank or status
optimistic - to anticipate the best possible outcome
counterparts - one remarkably similar to another: one having the same function or characteristics as another
anticipate - to look forward to as certain : expect

Comprehension Questions:
1. Do you agree with the article that family is more important than sex, money, or music? Why/not?
2. What makes a family successful? Why do you think so?
3. According to the article, many think the future will be more difficult. What do you think? Why?
4. Compared to now, did you feel more or less stress when you were younger? Why?
5. If you won $1,000,000, would you be happy? Why/not?

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Here it is, a chance to tell us all about any experiences that play a roll in your day. Something that has changed your life or the way you think about things? It could be something bad, or a life changing accident or even something completely amazing like climbing a mountain or walking the desert.

The purpose of this lesson is to share and elaborate on an appealing experience from your life. Personal experience focuses on your experience and its importance and impact on you. Describe a situation you consider to be crucial in your development.

You may think that you have no appropriate event to share. It cannot be that way. Whatever topic you decide on, mind that your aim is to convey its importance. Your narration should give a deep insight into the details of the event and must gain some meaning why this very experience is so remarkable to you.

EXPERIENCE DISCUSSION:

· Have you had an interesting life so far? Why/not?
· Have you ever thought your life was boring? Why/not?
· Have you ever followed your dreams? Why/not?
· What does experience mean?
· What have you always wanted to do? Please explain.
· What have you never wanted to do? Please explain.
· What is the most boring place you have ever been to? Why was it boring? How about the most interesting place? How about the most dangerous place? Please explain.
· What is the scariest experience you have ever had? Why was it so scary?
· What is the most embarrassing experience you have ever had? Why was it so embarrassing?
· What is the biggest mistake you have ever made? Please explain.
· Have you ever met anyone famous? If yes, who did you meet? If no, who would you like to meet?
· Have you ever wanted to try something really dangerous? Why/not?
· Have you ever wanted to try something really difficult? Why/not?
· Have you ever met anyone really amazing? What made the person so amazing?
· What have you always been good at? Why?
· What have you never been good at? Why?
· What important things have you learned from your parents?
· What important things have you learned from your friends?

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The data has been examined, the results tallied, and the conclusions reached: Men create more housework for women. Although he may mow the lawn, shovel snow, or tinker with repairs here and there, a husband adds seven hours per week to the load of chores conducted around the house. The information comes via the analysis of time diaries and questionnaires from men and women from regions all across the US between 1996 and 2005.

Of the people surveyed, single women in their twenties and thirties did the least amount of housework, with roughly twelve hours per week. On the other hand, married women did the most, about seventeen hours on average.

Marriage means more work for women and less for men. In addition, the situation worsens when children come on the scene. With three kids, the wives took on twenty-eight hours of chores per week, while hubbies did only ten.

There were some surprises, too. Older men were more likely than younger men to pitch in, even though surveys from thirty years ago showed that men contributed only six hours per week to household chores. Women in their sixties and seventies still did the most amount of work. Single women did the least amount, or about twelve hours each week.So what does it all mean?

Women have traditionally adopted more responsibility around the house, and the sphere of work and careers has been relegated to men. Despite equal rights and better career opportunities for women, traditional patterns remain taken for granted by both sexes.

Post-Comprehension:

Talk about the following questions in pairs/groups. Remember to support your answers!

1. How much work do you do around the house each week? What kind of chores do you do? Please explain.
2. Why do you think men do fewer chores than women? Please explain.
3. Would you ever consider becoming a house husband? (Or would you want your spouse to become one?)
4. How will the results of future surveys change in another thirty years? Why do you think so?
5. If housework were a job that paid money, what would be a fair hourly wage? Please explain.

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People from English-speaking countries often require more verbal feedback than Koreans. Silence in response to a question can result in the person becoming annoyed or frustrated. Silence can mean that the person didn’t understand the question, thinks the person is an idiot, is dreaming about his future spouse, or thinking about his answer. Therefore, it’s important to let the person know which of the above situations is true.

Target Phrases

In case you don’t know the answer
I don’t know.
I don’t know anything about that
I haven’t thought about that.

It’s very acceptable to be honest that you don’t know something.

If the question is too broad or too vague
I’m sorry, could you be more specific?
What do you mean exactly?
Is there anything in particular you want to know?

Try to narrow down the topic or the range of the question(s).

If you need time to think
Hmm. Let me see…
Let me think about that.
Weeell…
Good question.

If you don’t understand
Pardon me?
Could you please repeat that?
I didn’t hear what you said. Could you explain what you mean?
What does that mean?

Don’t be embarrassed; just tell the other person, so they can help you understand.

If you feel your English is not good enough
I know what you’re talking about, but it’s difficult for me to explain in English.
But let me see…
Let me try again.

Try to explain in simple words; your simple description may even be clearer than the exact translation.

If the question is too personal
I’m sorry I’d rather not say.
That’s a little personal.
I’d rather not talk about it.
It’s none of your business.

Try to avoid sounding rude when using the next phrases, especially the last one.


CONVERSATION
Using the Target Phrases

DIALOGUE 1
A: Why is Hye Yeon so upset?
B: I don’t know. Why do you ask?
A: No reason. She just looks like she’s upset about something.
B: Why don’t you ask for yourself?

DIALOGUE 2
A: So what do you think of the political situation in Korea?
B: Hmm, that’s a big question. Is there anything in particular you want to know?
A: Well, I heard there were a few demonstrations last week and I want to know what they were about and what you think about them.
B: Oh, I see. Well, first of all…

DIALOGUE 3
A: What do you think about the current government scandal?
B: Weeeell… let me think about that.
A: What’s there to think about?
B: Just give me some time, will you?

DIALOGUE 4
A: When I came home, there was an open jar of jam on the kitchen counter.
B: I’m sorry, I didn’t hear what you said. Could you please repeat that?
A: Sure. I said that there was an open jar of jam on the kitchen counter.
B: Oh, I see. Thanks for repeating.

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Sport is an activity that is governed by a set of rules or customs and often engaged in competitively. Sports commonly refer to activities where the physical capabilities of the competitor are the sole or primary determinant of the outcome (winning or losing). Sport is commonly defined as an organized, competitive and skillful physical activity requiring commitment and fair play.

Sports are most often played just for fun or for the simple fact that people need exercise to stay in good physical condition.

SPORTS DISCUSSION:

1. What sports are popular in your country? What makes them popular?
2. Which sport do you like? How often do you play your favorite sports?
3. Are there any sports that you would like to try out in the future? Why did you choose this sport?
4. Do you like watching sports channels? Are you a sports TV fanatic?
5. What sports do you like to watch on television? Which one is much better: watching sports on T.V or watching a game live? Why?
6. Have you ever watched TV sports channels in English? How was it like?
7. Do you like sports casting? Why or why not?
8. Do you have TV sports channels in your country? How is the sport casting like?
9. What is the national sport of your country? How do you play this sport?
10. Are you good at playing your national sports? Do you always play this sport?
11. Have you ever competed in a sports competition?
12. Would you like to compete in sports? In what kind of competition?
13. Would you like your kids to be involved in sports too? If so what kind?
14. Which do you prefer team sports or Individual sports? Why?
15. Why do you think people play sports?

WORDS AND EXPRESSIONS
1. Compete – try to get something for them and stop the other getting it, a contest or game
Ex) Countries compete with each other

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FOR BEGINNER HIGH STUDENTS




Jeju Island is one of the most beautiful islands in East Asia. It is an excellent place for active tourism. The island has no manufacturing industry - the local people’s living comes from tourism, agriculture, and fishing. Development of many places is strictly controlled as ecology is high priority. Tourists can enjoy water sports: scuba- diving, sea kayaking, windsurfing, and parasailing.



Questions for Discussion:

1. Have you been to Jeju Island? If yes, can you describe your experience there?
2. What do you think will happen to Jeju Island in case the government agrees to set up manufacturing there?
3. What do you think will happen if Jeju Island becomes more commercialized?
4. Do you know of any programs done by the government to protect Jeju Island?
5. Do you think promoting Jeju Island for tourism runs contrary to preserving it as a natural island?
6. What are other places in the world- or in Korea- that you can compare to Jeju Island?
7. Aside from the activities mentioned above, what else would you like to do if you get a chance to spend a week on the island?

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What's wrong with being single? Little is spoken about being single, except as a condition to avoid like the plague. In the dawn of a new millennium, it's time to say what being single is really all about. Society expects every man and woman to wed, preferably before the age of 30, and to have at least one child (two is perfect). Even though the term "old maid" is no longer politically correct, many still respond with surprise if an older woman remains unhitched. The message couldn't be clearer. It's not okay to be alone. Sometimes, singles are excluded from "couples" nights or activities or they're advised to "bring a friend."

Being in a loving relationship has its benefits, no doubt about it. Someone to talk to at any given moment, someone to rub your sore shoulders after a hard day's work, someone to do things with, someone to keep you warm at night, someone to buy you gifts at Christmas time and Valentine's Day, someone to make you feel special, and someone to whisper "sweet nothings" in your ear. Financially, couples are better off than individuals, and child-rearing is a lot easier with two parents. Also, being in a relationship helps us feel "normal." You don't have to worry about playing the dating game or trying to figure yourself out (maybe); you're okay because someone else says you are.

However, being single can be a rejuvenating experience. In fact, one can't truly be successful in a relationship without being single for a time. Being single allows us to do what we want, when we want, and with whom we want without having to answer to anyone. This is because we have more time on our hands and are not avoiding looking at ourselves by focusing our energies on someone else. Basically, being single affords each of us the opportunity to discover who we are, what we do and don't like, how we deal with things, what we want out of life, what our expectations are, what our potentials and limitations are, what energizes and empowers us, and what discourages and disappoints us. The goal of being single should be to learn to fulfill ourselves, to meet our needs, and to develop as a human being regardless of whether or not we choose to enter into a relationship.

Key Vocabulary:

rejuvenating
to make young or youthful again, to restore to an original or new state
figure
to discover, to determine
child-rearing
raising a child
better off
being in comfortable economic circumstances, being in a more advantageous position, luckier
excluded
prevented from or restricted the entrance of, being removed from
unhitched
still single, not taken yet
politically correct
conforming to a belief that language and practices which could offend political sensibilities (as in matters of sex or race) should be eliminated
old maid
old lady
plague
a clear area in a bacterial culture produced by viral destruction of cells, contagious diseases

Discussion Questions:

Why do you think some people remain single?
Would you like to be single all your life?
Is it better to be single or married? Why?
What are the advantages of being single?
Do you think that single people are happier?
Do you think it is easier for man or woman to be single?
Why did you think some people prefer to be single?
Do you think that there is a soulmate somewhere for everyone?
Do you think that single people like being single?
In your country, what do people think about a woman in her 30s who is unmarried?
In your country, what do people think about a man in his 30s who is unmarried?

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READING PRACTICE

These days, people worship the temple of their body. People are so engrossed with toning their muscles. In pursuit of perfect body, they have neglected what really defines humans: intelligence. Whenever I see a muscle bound guy or well-sculptured gal sweating it out in the gym, I couldn't help exclaiming, “There goes one more brainless dinosaur on the verge of extinction".

I just can't rid myself of the stereotype that a beautiful body houses an empty head. With this health mania spreading like a cold virus, I don't feel so prejudiced. A healthy body and a functioning brain can coexist, I know, but with all narcissistic preoccupation with health, people no longer have the time to develop that gray matter between their ears. It's a reverse of the past when people were too busy making a living that they had no time to work out. But when it swung the opposite way, it went to an absurd extreme. Take this test to do determine your mental health

WORDS AND EXPRESSIONS

1. engrossed – preoccupied; attentive to
2. Gal – Girl
3. Narcissistic – Thinking too highly of oneself: conceited,
4. Absurd – Silly

PERSONAL APPLICATION

1. What exercise do you do?
2. What are the popular forms of exercise in Korea?
3. What do you think of yoga?
4. What do you think of growth hormones such as steroids?

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It always gets my goat whenever I hear of people going on a tour to this exotic place and being so busy snapping pictures with their cameras that they fail to enjoy the experience of just “taking in the scene".

It's like this proverbial story of this couple who were asked what they felt about their trip to Paris. They said, "Oh, we were so busy taking pictures to show friends back home that we didn't have time to look around ”.

Pathetic. I think that when people are on a tour, they should never bring any kind of capture device except their naked eye. One must immerse oneself to the experience of the moment: to breathe in the air, to feel the mood, to sense the place with all its history and its promises.

Flash bulbs flashing, people crowding in for a shot, artificial smiles born on a lip that says "cheese" spoils the spirit of a spot. How would you like a silent appreciation of a sunset interrupted by a commentary from some noisy guys?

WORDS AND EXPRESSIONS

1. Gets my goat - Annoy or anger someone
2. Proverbial - widely known and spoken of
3. Pathetic - Causing or deserving pity or sorrow; pitiful; sad
4. Immerse - Throw yourself into.

PERSONAL APPLICATION

1. Do you like to travel? Why or why not?

2. Which places have you visited? What place impressed you the most? Why?

3. Which places in the world and which tourist spots do you want to see?

4. What do you want to do the most when you travel?

5. How does the writer feel about taking pictures during the trip?

6. Do you agree with the writer’s opinion?

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Citizenship is membership in a political community (originally a city or town but now usually a country)

Questions:

1. What is the best thing about being a Korean citizen?
2. The Korean government requires all Korean male citizens serve a military duty. What is the purpose of this obligation? Do you think this is still appropriate in our present era? Don’t you think it should be replaced by something like a community service?
3. Is it possible for someone to be a Korean citizen even if he/she is not born in Korea? If yes, what procedures should a person undertake to become a Korean citizen?
4. In some countries, people tend to discriminate people from other countries especially those that came from third world countries. Do you have the same situation in Korea? Do you also have a tendency to discriminate someone if he/she is not a Korean citizen?
5. Each Korean has a 13-digit citizenship registration number. Can you tell more about this? What is it for? Do you think it is safe because it includes so much personal information?

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Personality profiles include extroverts and introverts, which are opposite ends of the spectrum of personality types. Extroverts and introverts are often attracted to one another because opposites attract – but may find it difficult to build a strong relationship or marriage. Though relationship conflict is inevitable resolving conflict is easier when you understand introvert and extrovert personality types

Maybe you need a personality test to scan if you’re an introvert or an extrovert. However, you may just need to determine through the introverts and extroverts to see your own personality profile.

(Introvert personality traits)
Introverts are usually energized by being alone, private, and quiet. Introverts are more
afraid of rejection, and don’t always see the world as a safe place.

(Extroverts personality traits)
Extroverts tend to be energized by groups of people, conversation, and activity. Extroverts
are not afraid of rejection, and see the world as a safer place.

(Synonym Match)
1. Passive
2. Pessimistic
3. Sober
4. Moody
5. Reserved

(a) Aggressive
(b) Excitable
(c) Non Resistance
(d) Impulsive
(e) Negative
(f) Touchy
(g) Serious
(h) Changeable
(I) slow to show emotion

(About You Conversation Questions)
1. What city were you born in?
2. Where do you live now?
3. What is your philosophy about life?
4. Are you religious or agnostic?
5. Who is your favorite actor/actress/singer?
6. What is your favorite food?
7. Are you a morning person or an evening person?
8. Are you a couch potato?
9. What are your plans for the future?
10. What is your favorite book?
11. What do you usually do on the weekends?
12. Are you a moody person?
13. Are you usually optimistic or pessimistic?
14. Are you outgoing or shy?
15. Are you a teetotaler or a social drinker?
16. Are you generous or stingy?

(Cultural Differences)
1. Koreans consider themselves as part of a group first, as individuals second.
Americans consider themselves as individuals first, then as part of a group.
2. Americans like more personal space. They feel comfortable standing about a
meter away from strangers.
3. Creativity and individuality are valued in America, whereas memorizing
data and conformity are valued in Korea
4. In Korea males must do military service, whereas in America military
service is voluntary
5. Koreans are more physical with their friends of the same sex: holding hands
and putting their arms on their shoulders. Korean females often hold hands
while walking and sitting in public. Americans consider being physical with
the same sex as being gay.
6. In general, Koreans prefer to buy new merchandise, such as TVs and cars.
They do not like to buy used things. Many Americans prefer to buy used
things because of the cheaper price
7. Compared to America, Korea is a very non-violent society. In Korea people
are not permitted to own guns. Guns are common in America.
8. Koreans go out in groups . It is considered bad manners to leave the group
before the evening is over. However, for Americans it is fine to leave the
group and do something else or go home.
9. Some Korean restrooms can be used by men and women. This never
happens in America.

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FOR BEGINNER/INTERMEDIATE STUDENTS

There are many situations where you have to break in on someone’s solitude or on another conversation in order to ask a question or give some information. People usually pause after an initial interruption (for example: “Excuse me … (pause)… could you…”) before continuing on by asking a question or making a point. Always make sure to remember at the end of the conversation to apologize for your interruption.

Target Phrases

When interrupting
Excuse me, could you pass me the salt?
Pardon me, could you move aside for a moment?
Excuse me, do you speak English?
Pardon me, can you tell me what time it is?

After interrupting
Sorry to have bothered you.
Sorry for interrupting.
Sorry, I disturbed you.
Please continue. I didn’t mean to interrupt.

Using the Target Phrases

DIALOGUE 1
A: Excuse me, could you tell me where I can find the post office?
B: Sure. Just keep going down this street until you get to the corner.
A: OK. Thanks a lot. Sorry for interrupting.
B: No problem.

DIALOGUE 2
A: Excuse me. Is John Miller here?
B: No. He just went downstairs to get something to eat.
A: OK. Thank you. Sorry to have bothered you.
B: That’s OK.

DIALOGUE 3
A: Pardon me, I don’t mean to disturb you, but your jacket is lying on the floor.
B: Really? Oh, it is. Thanks for telling me.
A: It’s my pleasure.
B: Thanks again.

DIALOGUE 4
A: Excuse me, you look familiar. Do I know you from somewhere?
B: Maybe. Have you ever taken a class at Pagoda?
A: Yes. That’s it. I think we had a class together.
B: Yes, that’s it. I can’t remember our teacher’s name.
A: I think it was Gary.
B: Of course. Now I remember.
A: Well, I’d better get going. I’ve got to go to work. Sorry for interrupting.
B: Don’t worry about it. It was nice seeing you again.
A: Likewise.

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A day in the life of every businessperson is made up of a series of meetings and greetings. Whether you are making the initial contact with a client or a colleague, you want to get off on the right foot. Doing so will make the first encounter and subsequent ones go smoothly and easily.

Your goal of meeting other people is to make them feel comfortable and to put them ease so they will want to do business with you and you will have a solid start for long-term profitable relationships.

Strategies for a successful start

• Stand up when you meet someone. allows you to engage the person on an equal level - eye to eye. By remaining seated, you send a message that you don't think the other person is important enough to warrant the effort it takes to stand.


• Smile.Your facial expression says more than your words.


• Make eye contact. Looking at the people you meet says you are focused and interested in them.


• Introduce yourself immediately. Include a statement about who you are when necessary. It is not always enough to say, "Hello, I'm Mary Jones." Give more information. "Hello, I'm Mary Jones. I work for XYZ Corporation."Offer a firm handshake.


• Extend your hand as you give your greeting. The person who puts a hand out first comes across as confident and at ease.


• Pay attention to names when you meet people. If you concentrate and repeat the name as soon as you hear it, you stand a better chance of remembering it later.


• Use first names of people whom you have just met only after they give you permission. Not everyone wants to be addressed informally on the initial encounter. It is better to err on the side of formality than to offend the other person right off the bat.

WORDS AND EXPRESSIONS
polite – has good manners and behavior, not rude to other people
Ex) My nephew is a polite student

DISCUSSION
1. Are you comfortable at greeting people?
2. In Korea, do you shake the hand of the person you’re being introduced to?
3. When do you greet a person informally and when do you greet a person in a formal way?
4. How do you introduce a person? What do you need to say?
5. How will you introduce me to your wife or your family?
6. What should we remember when introducing someone?
7. Have you tried introducing someone in English? If so, how did you do it? If not, why?

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FOR ADVANCE STUDENTS

§ Party Poopers When you receive an invitation to a dinner or party, voicemail, or casual email--RESPOND. Everyone knows it, yet it’s amazing how many don’t respond. Even for weddings! Planning a party or event requires a lot of work, so do the host a simple favor and let them know if you're coming or not.

§ Nickel & Dimin’ How annoying is it when you go to dinner with four or more people, the bill finally arrives, and one of your meal companions begins to divvy up the check down to the last penny. The point is, if you go out to dinner with a group, be prepared to split the bill more or less evenly. The person who spends twenty minutes dividing the bill to the dime comes off as a cheapskate –- and kills the festive mood.

§ The Line-Up Lines are a fact of life. At the post office, the supermarket, just about everywhere these days. For starters, moaners who huff and gripe about standing in a line of three people for all of five minutes are tops on our list. Get over yourself -- if you don’t have a few minutes to wait to buy that loaf of bread, then pick it up another time. Finally, cutting in line or trying to ignore the fact that there IS a line –- stop it! Everyone’s time is valuable.

§ The ME Show It’s great to hear all the crazy, wacky, wonderful things happening in the lives of others. Jobs, engagements, breakups, boyfriends, puppies, pregnancies, vacations — very good stuff, all of it. But once you’ve listened to a friend, family member, or colleague spout about their own fabulous life for an hour (or two), it’s normal to expect them to ask, “So, what’s going on with you?” Those who blab on about themselves while you listen intently, then don’t ask a thing about you in return are just plain rude.

§ Baby Biz Changing a poopy baby diaper around others is nasty -- and we're moms. Changing the other kind of baby diaper in public is one thing, but still should only be done when absolutely necessary!

§ Mobile Madness As much as we love the modern age, there are days when we long to go to a coffee shop, movie theatre, bookstore, or post office and not hear some teen queen dishing to her friend about last night's hot date with Todd or eavesdrop (unwillingly) on a screaming family feud. Mobile phones are essential, but please, people, pleeeeeeease, use a little restraint on the when's, what's, and where's.

§ Smokes Everyone has a right to smoke in public, but be conscious of whose face your smoke is blowing into. Are there kids nearby? And we just might kick the butt of the next person we see throwing their burning butt on the ground without putting it out. Really, find an ashtray or trashcan where you can extinguish and dispose of it properly -- that thing is garbage, not decoration for our streets and sidewalks.

§ The Pee & Flee Public bathrooms get used by everyone -- yup, they're public! So, making a mess of the toilet seat, and then prancing out without bothering to wipe it up -- not cool. Leaving a mess for the next visitor is completely unacceptable (and disgustingly unsanitary, of course). Take 10 seconds to rip off a piece of toilet paper, toilet seat cover, or a paper towel, and do your due diligence!

§ Stealing...a parking spot, that is. Yeah, you know who you are. If someone has their blinker on and is patiently waiting for a spot, it's theirs. And if you've already passed a spot up, it's gone. Treat others as you expect to be treated, and the parking goddesses will smile down upon you... eventually.

§ Belly Baring Men, women -- anyone who's passed puberty, everyone who isn't lounging poolside or oceanside -- resist the urge to bare those bellies. They may be beautiful, Buddha-like, jolly, but sometimes they can be flabby, hairy, and not ripe for public consumption. If you're jogging, fellas, t-shirts or tanks won't hurt your workout, so throw one on. Gals, midriff fashions are never really on our "Do" list, and that goes double if your age doesn't contain the word "teen." There are plenty of ways for all of us to flaunt what we got without sharing our tum-tums with the world.

§ Spitting This gets especially yucky when it's one of those enormous globs that look like it could be alive. Some people (males, in particular) think it's kind of a cool-guy thing to do. We're here to tell ya that no one wants to see you hock a big sticky one out of your car, onto the sidewalk, or anywhere else for that matter. Try a tissue.

§ Honking Problem People who honk too often, too unnecessarily, or just to express their emotions are on our list of Most Etiquette Challenged. If you're trying to warn someone about a accident or problem, fine, otherwise it's not that serious. Give it a rest!

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By Kwon Mee-yoo
Staff Reporter
meeyoo@koreatimes.co.kr

A 21-year-old mother was caught trying to sell her 29-day-old baby for 2 million won ($1,500) in an apparent attempt to overcome financial difficulties, police said Monday. According to the Daejeon Dunsan Police Station, the mother, identified only as Goh, handed over her one-month-old baby boy to a woman named Park, 21, in exchange for the cash in a Cheonan Station, South Chungcheong Province, waiting room on Feb. 8, 2009.

``Goh lives in a welfare facility in Seoul after running away from her home and gave birth to the baby last month without the father. The unmarried mother wrote on the Internet that she would sell her baby because she couldn't afford to raise him,'' police said. Park, said to be mentally disabled, did not actually pay for the baby. She stayed in a ``gosiwon,'' a cheap single-room accommodation, for a night with the child, but her mother reported the incident to police after discovering what had occurred.

``Park seems to have taken the baby out of curiosity,'' a police official said. ``The baby was safely handed over to a social welfare organization.''

Questions for Discussions
What can you say about this recent incident in your country?
What is your opinion on selling babies to overcome financial difficulties?
Do you think a mentally disabled person is fit to raise a child?
Do you know the percentage of women having babies out of wedlock?
What it the effect or impact of women having babies without being married or no other half to raised the child? Is Korean culture open to this kind of happenings?

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Who doesn't wonder what coworkers earn? Most employees view salary as more than a figure for negotiation; it's also a telling measure of their value and worth to an employer. A little more openness about salary would arm workers with the knowledge that they can ask for more, be satisfied with what they're getting, or at least know what to expect if they get promoted.

Research shows that men are not just motivated by money, but also by how much more or less they earn than their colleagues. Traditional thinking was that men were only interested in the size of their pay packets. New findings reveal that men are also concerned about how much their peers are getting.

Korean billionaires: Are these the richest people in Korea.

Vladimir Kim $5.5 Billion: Company - Kazakhmys
Lee Kun Hee $2.9 Billion: Company - Samsung
Chung Mong Koo $2.2 Billion: Company - Hyundai
Shin Dong Bin $1.8 Billion: Company - Lotte
Lee Myung Hee $1.8 Billion: Company - Shinsegae
Lee Jay Yong $1.7 Billion: Company - Samsung
Shin Dong Joo $1.7 Billion: Company - Lotte
Nicholas Park $1.7 Billion: Company - Attorney
Yong Keu Cha $1.3 Billion: Company - Kazakhmys
Chung Mong Joon $1.3 Billion: Company - Hyundai Heavy
Suh Kyung Bae $1.1 Billion: Company - Amorepacific
Han Chang Woo $1.1 Billion: : Company - Maruhan

SALARY DISCUSSION

· Do you and your colleagues ever discuss salaries?
· Are you motivated by your co-workers’ salaries?
· Would you work harder if you knew that your colleague did the same job, but earned more money?
· Do you think that salaries should be based on merit or length of service?
· Would you work very hard if you knew that you would not receive a pay increase for your efforts?
· What motivates you in the workplace?
· How much of a motivating factor is money for you?
· Do you care about how much your colleagues are getting?
· How often do you think about the size of your pay packet and wish it was bigger?
· What other things concern you about your peers or colleagues?
· What does the reward center in your brain like?
· How important is it for you to beat your rivals?
· What things are more important in life than money?
· Do you think men and women look at money differently?
· Which sex is more competitive men or women?
· Do you think knowledge of colleagues’ salaries would increase productivity in the workplace?
· Would rivalries and jealousies increase efficiency?
· How do managers balance keeping their workers happy with their salaries and working conditions while increasing productivity?

SYNONYM MATCH: Match the following synonyms:

a) motivated........................................................assess
b) colleagues........................................................productive
c) peers.................................................................effect
d) perform............................................................income
e) rivals.................................................................equals
f) gauge.................................................................driven
g) earnings............................................................nasty
h) impact...............................................................carry out
i) sour.....................................................................coworkers
j) efficient..............................................................competitors

SALARY IDIOMS:

Make ends meet: to be able to afford to pay for the basic expenses of living.
Things are so expensive nowadays that it's very difficult to make ends meet.

Golden Handshake: A golden handshake is a generous sum of money given to a person when they leave a company or retire (sometimes given to encourage early retirement).

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